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Papa don't preach: battles with parents over clothes

5/26/2014

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"A little rebellion now and then is a good thing." --Thomas Jefferson 

Fights over clothes? Growing up I had some doozies with my dad. Generally the fights were over "brand new" clothes hanging in my closet that I'd never worn. Typically I'd never worn them because style in school is complex, & I knew better than he did what I needed to wear to navigate those difficult waters. 

Did you fight with your parents over clothes in high school? Did you want to wear something they thought was inappropriate? I didn't fight with my parents over whether something was too short or too low-cut but rather over whether my clothes looked (to them) like rags. I also battled with them over an all-black phase I went through. 

Did you ever hide something in your backpack & then change into it on once you got to school? I can remember doing this, but I can't remember what it was. 

This past weekend I took stock of the times I get mad at my own kids over clothes. Here are some of the main reasons...
  • Not wearing new things, & then ending up outgrowing them. Case in point: some Heelies my youngest has outgrown before ever really wearing them. This is much like the times my dad got mad at me, but my son has a good reason: it was too hard for him to learn to skate in Heelies.

  • Wearing clothes for, like, an hour & then putting them in the hamper.  And then asking for a new outfit to put on (when you could just pull the nearly-clean outfit out of the hamper & put it back on!).

  • Not wearing a pullover or jacket when it's cold out. Ditto refusing to wear pants (instead of shorts) when it's cold. This was a daily battle in March. Classic parenting battle really. 

  • Asking me to get their clothes when they can get their own. This one's kind of sweet but also pure laziness on their part. 

  • Losing something. Lost your mittens, you naughty kittens.

  • Stretching out their clothes by stuffing their entire bodies inside their tops.  

  • Leaving dirty socks on the floor & under the couch & leaving their shoes all over the house.


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Well, I guess we've established that I get angry with the kids about clothes. My fights with my dad were few & far between in comparison. 

Of course, I know that these fights are about a lot more than just clothes. They're about responsibility & sharing in the upkeep of our home & not wasting.

It's funny because I resolved never to fight with my kids about food. I guess we shouldn't be fighting over clothes either?


Did you fight (argue) with your parents about clothes when you were in high school? Have you had arguments with your own kids over clothes?


4 Comments
Monica
5/26/2014 12:21:20 am

Oh the socks, socks, socks, socks. I feel like there should've been a memo when we decided to have children. Socks in the garden, socks in the kitchen, socks hanging over the edge of the aquarium.
We don't really fight over clothes much at all yet, but those days are coming, I just know it.

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Josie
5/26/2014 03:05:22 am

Oh my gosh--yes, we needed a memo of warning about the socks! :-) You never fought much with your parents over clothes, Monica? This post is going to help me to argue less with my kids, I think.

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Suzie
5/27/2014 10:40:41 pm

It's so eye-opening for me to read your post because as a child I don't remember doing ANY of the things you mentioned! Except gym shoes and umbrellas, I know I lost those (and mini salt shakers in my lunch bag). Funny, no matter how many times she chastised me, I never improved!

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Josie
5/28/2014 12:15:00 am

Suzie, you are the best! Thank you so much for visiting this post & commenting! I don't think I remember doing any of those things as a kid either...oh wait, I was one of those kids who wouldn't wear a jacket when it was cold when I'd just recovered from strep throat or something (I had strep a lot). You lost mini salt shakers in your lunch bag? and gym shoes and umbrellas? That's some funny stuff to lose! :-))

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